September 04, 2004

"they’ve never thought about it"...strange

This seems bizarre to me..

Bad and bored: Britain is sick and tired, there is no religion, no culture and no patriotism — and not even leisure can lighten our burden (Theodore Dalrymple, 9/04/04, The Spectator)

...It has fallen to our generation...to create a population that is bored equally by work and leisure. (That, of course, is why ‘leisure management’ has become both an academic subject and a career.) When I meet patients who tell me that they are fed up with their work because it is so boring, and they wish they could stop working altogether, I ask them what they would like to do instead. The question comes like an unexpected thunderclap, or a flash of lightning in a darkened landscape: they’ve never thought about it, and when they do they are completely unable to answer. They realise for the first time that it is not so much work that bores them as existence.... [quote lifted from Orrin Judd]

I tend to think of the trendy lefty enclaves of the two coasts, including SF where we live, as sharing many of the pathologies that afflict Europe. But I don't recall encountering anything like this.

Perhaps I don't mix in the right circles, or perhaps Mr Dalrymple has got it wrong. But this just seems so DIFFERENT. There are Americans who have nothing but their work, and Americans who are bored with their work...but the two groups don't overlap. A large percentage of Americans say they are satisfied with their jobs, and those who aren't usually fill their non-work lives with activities that they wish they could pursue full-time. And everyone else is wishing they could fly to Mars. Or so it seems to me.

Posted by John Weidner at September 4, 2004 05:12 PM | TrackBack
Comments

Yeah, I'd need three or four of me to do all of the things I want to do. Every year there's even more stuff I write off because I'll just never have the time.

Posted by: Annoying Old Guy at September 4, 2004 08:18 PM

It's strange how the hours and days shrink as you get older.

Posted by: John Weidner at September 5, 2004 09:03 AM

Most of the people who say they are "bored" with everything are the ones who have no sense of discipline, are fearful of change, and who waste their lives away in futile daydreams and endless resentment. How do I know? I was one of those people. One day I realized how dark and smelly it was where I was, and I pulled my head out of my posterior. Took care of that kink in my back too.

Posted by: Andrea Harris at September 6, 2004 07:55 PM

That's what living in a bossy-boots Nanny State does to the brain...turns it to mush, for one is constantly told one is not bright enough to handle one's own life and affairs, but needs government's guiding hand at every turn, for "they" know best. A very simple explanation why the British are bored.

Posted by: MommaBear at September 11, 2004 06:15 PM
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